zebra - life with stripes
Sunday, 26 June 2016
surgery , tube , admissions , abdominal adhesions
Sunday, 24 April 2016
a letter to a med student from someone with a chronic illness
i know your tired i know your over worked and very stretched i know you see hundreds of people every day walk in and out of those hospital doors and i know to you thats just normal
but please understand when we are walking through those doors we are scared , terrified , tired in pain , we are at our absolute worse to be going there
i know you see people who try it on and i know that clouds your veiw and makes you question people when they dont 'look' like they are in pain , but please understand most of us really are we dont want to be in hospital any more than anyone else , if we dont look like we are in pain maybe we are so used to the daily pain levels and the constant pain that goes along with the illness we have that pain that would have someone on the floor doesnt do that to us , we have learned our own ways of coping with pain . maybe we are so used to hiding our pain from friends and family and anyone we need to that the act continues even when we want to scream and shout and swear in agony the act goes on it becomes habbit it becomes natural to hide it
dear med student , when you say 'you are on alot of medication' understand i dont want it any more than you want it for someone , im in my early 20's and i take 30 plus tablets a day , please understand my body needs most of this to function my body needs this to work , its usually consultants that prescribe all these some may even be given by your boss
dear med student if you dont know please dont try and guess please dont take risks , i have a rare disease im used to people not knowing but guessing can cause damage or at the very lease make the wait for an answer to anything new even longer
dear med student when i give answers to questions or say exactly what is going on with my body please dont tell me 'do not google this or google os not a dr' just because im saying exactly what is wrong doesnt mean that i googled anything , the majority of the time its because ive lived this my whole life most things that can go wrong have gone wrong more than once im going by my own experience please dont invalidate my experience because usually when i have syymptoms ive had before and i think i know whats wrong im usually right on point with whats going on
dear med student , i may have depresssion and anxiety but these are not the cause of everything , depression and anxiety will not and can not ever change my genetic make up weather i had mental illness or not id still have genetic disorders thats not going to change and soemtimes its the genetic illness that leads to mental illness i mean if you spent the best part of a year in hospital unable to eat or drink in constant pain and discomfort with uncontrolable nausea and daily dislocations wouldnt you get a little depressed too ?
dear med student please understand the hospital is the last place anyone wants to be and most people when ill much preffer their own beds please dont let the minority cloud your veiw of the majoirty please just try to be empathetic and listen it goes a long way and will likley get you a long way too ,
understand that if you listen and take someone seriously it helps them to trust you and be hinest about their symptoms which in the long run will really help them even if they have somthing incurable it may help the acute symptoms they present with
Saturday, 23 April 2016
a long overdue update
i went through a very down patch when the tube came out i felt like the last little piece of hope had been snatched away from me like the one thing that made things better and easier that was gone too , but im back on track now and hoping that this doesnt happen again
so in more detail , by the admission where i had the tube , i was no longer abosrbing my meds my thyroid was low magnesium potassium and vit b12 and d were all low due to malnutrition and no medication , i was in withdrawal from my antispychotis and anti depressants so i was no longer eating or sleeping and much of the time i was dehydrated as even water could not stay down , i came close to another admission for my mental health before i got admitted and when i did my blood work showed the problem/s the meds now all go down the j part of my tube and as long as its working i am well and stable , i was told that i also need a liver scan my ALT (one of my liver enzymes) was nearly 3 times what it should be , its come down but is still high we dont know why the liver enzyme is raised they have said not to be too concerned i have no pain other than where the tube is still new and i am not jaundice so fingers crossed that scan will come back clear i get seen by my gastro team next month to reveiw how the tube is going and i am hoping that i am continuing to stay the same weight and not loose anymore and that all will be well with that so i can start getting on with things rather than spending most of my time in the hospital
Friday, 1 January 2016
A new year a new diagnosis
I had the radioisotope and the results say I have Gastro paresis I can now tell the dr that it's not just reflux or anxiety I am on a new med and an increased dose of another med and they seem to have already made a slight difference as ensures are now staying Down getting closer and closer to home thumb keeps dislocating and may by need to be splinted or plastered but I'm trying to stay positive in the hope I go home soon
Sunday, 27 December 2015
been here for 5 weeks
Tuesday, 22 December 2015
Been here over a month may be in for x mas
Vomited up 2 nj tubes so they don't want to put a new one in telling me to try fluids but only thin ones stay down anything thick comes up I've lost 10 lbs in 4 weeks 6 lbs came off in less than a week since coming off the iv fluids and vomiting the tube they don't want to find a permanent feeding route yet ad that will mean surgery and weeks more in here but I wish they're find something as I keep trying n keep vomiting they are doing the radioisotope as an outpatient as I need to come of prokinetics to have that I'm on a seringe driver of matoclopramide now and that is helping a little as I can hold down some fluids on it but only thin ones like squash and juice etc hot fluids come straight up as do thick ones so ensures and smoothies have also been tried and fruit puree and soup they also came up really struggling with mood swings and anxiety I think from lack of food and calories and just want to go home I don't know what happens if the seringe driver works as they haven't said I was already on tablet form at home and when I came in and it wasn't working but if all else fails they will eventually have to place a jej tube to feed me that will mean weeks in here he said